Click on the event below for the whole story
|Saturday, 17 June||Shabbat Shacharit|
|Friday, 19 May||Kabbalat Shabbat|
|Monday, 10 April||Pesach 2017|
|Saturday, 11 March||Purim 2017|
|Saturday, 11 February||Shabbat Shacharit|
|Friday, 27 January||Holocaust Memorial Day 2017|
|Friday, 13 January||Kabbalat Shabbat|
|Friday, 30 December||Hanukah Party and AGM|
|Friday, 25 November||Kabbalat Shabbat|
|Monday, 24 October||Simchat Torah|
|Sunday, 16 October||Succot|
|Sunday-Monday, 2-3 October||Rosh Hashanah 5777|
|Saturday, 17 September||Shabbat Shacharit|
|Friday, 19 August||Kol Zimra|
|Friday, 15 July||Oneg Shabbat|
|Sunday, 12 June||Tikkun Leyl Shavuot|
|Friday, 27 May||Kabbalat Shabbat|
|Friday, 22 April||Pesach 2016|
|Wednesday, 23 March||Purim Party|
|Friday, 11 March||Kabbalat Shabbat|
|Saturday, 13 February||Shabbat Shacharit|
|Friday, 5 February||LIM Visit to Grimsby Shul|
|Friday, 27 January||Holocaust Memorial Day 2016|
|Friday, 15 January||Kabbalat Shabbat|
|Friday, 11 December||Hanukah Party and AGM|
|Friday, 27 November||Kabbalat Shabbat|
|Monday, 5 October||Simchat Torah|
|Friday, 2 October||Succot|
|Sunday - Monday, 13 - 14 September||Rosh Hashana|
|Friday, 28 August||Kabbalat Shabbat|
|Friday, 7 August||Kol Zimra|
|Friday, 17 July||Oneg Shabbat|
|Saturday, 20 June||Shabbat Shacharit|
|Sunday, 24 May||Tikkun Leyl Shavuot|
|Friday, 3 April||LIM Pesach|
|Thursday, 5 March||Purim Party|
|Saturday, 14 February||Shabbat Shacharit and Torah|
Shabbat Shacharit - 17 June 2017
The Minyan met once again at St Georges Church Hall to celebrate Shabbat with a Shacharit and
Torah service. Steve led the service with help from six other members. Sadly, all our
university students have gone home for the summer and only Sheleg will be returning. Salome
was here for just one year and Naomi has completed her 3 year course. Naomi hopes to meet up
with us once she is settled in Derby for a one year placement.
Kevin had his first call up with us so we chanted the shehechianu afterwards. Despite the
small numbers we were all in fine voice including our dear friends in Devon. We made Kiddush
before saying goodbye to D&K then we washed hands ready to eat.
The lunch was delicious as usual, especially Shelley’s stuffed peppers. Having a leisurely
meal together means we have time to chat and catch up on the last few weeks since we met.
Ruth, Natan, Micky and Steve had just returned from a visit to our friends in Devon so they
had lots to talk about.
The next meeting will not be on Friday 14th July. Instead we are going to meet for a social
outing in Bardney on Saturday 15th July.
Kabbalat Shabbat - 19 May 2017
We met again on Friday 19th May for an ErevShabbat service and meal. Our numbers were down a
little bit because of illness and family commitments. Also, Salomé was not well enough to
attend her last meeting with us so we wish her well on her return to France and thank her
so much for being part of our little Minyan this last year. It was good to see Kevin and
Shelley who readily joined in with everything, including the clearing up. Jessica joined us
for a final time before she leaves university and goes back home to the Isle of Man.
Despite missing three of our stalwart members, we still had a Minyan with Dorothy and Karen
connecting in by Skype from Devon. This was important because Steve, Pawel and Kevin all had
yahrzeits for relatives and therefore the need to say Kaddish. We were also sad to hear of
the passing of Max Gold from Hull who has been a keen supporter of our group and remembered
him in our Kaddish.
After Kiddush and saying farewell to Devon, we overdosed on the carbohydrates this Shabbat
but we all enjoyed the jacket potatoes with fillings, lokshen pudding and fruit crumble.
Our next meeting is Tikkun Leyl Shavuot on Tuesday 30th May.
Pesach – 10 April 2017
This year we were very fortunate to have the use of the Chaplaincy Centre in Bishop Grosseteste
University thanks to the great generosity of Revd Peter Green, the BG Chaplain. Steve had sent
everyone maps and directions to find the venue and everyone arrived in good time and without
too much difficulty.
Special guests this year were Kevin and Shelley Pascovitch. Kevin had contacted us via the
website email address saying that he was Jewish and would like to connect with LIM. It was only
natural therefore to invite him to meet us all at the Seder and we were delighted that they were
both able to be with us. We were also delighted to have Dorothy and Karen with us in person rather
than via Skype. Unexpectedly, Pawel was not at home when we called to collect him. Only later did
we discover that he had rushed back to Poland following the sad death of one of his brothers. We
were also very pleased to have Steve and Micky’s daughter Abi and her two children, Megan and
Sophie, with us for the festival this year.
Before we began proceedings proper, we presented Naomi with gifts and a card from us all on the
occasion of her upcoming 21st birthday. Naomi then started the Seder by lighting the festival
Steve led the service, providing transliterated Hebrew for all the main elements for those for
whom Hebrew was a bit of a challenge. Thus, everyone joined in the singing with great enthusiasm
and helped with the reading of the Seder story. Everyone contributed to the delicious Seder
meal in a variety of ways.
This was another wonderful evening of welcoming guests, friendship, laughter, communal generosity
and co-operation, everyone having something to contribute, everyone taking away a happy memory
of a festival celebrated in traditional style, but in a manner that enabled everyone to participate.
Our thanks again to Revd Peter for his very kind and generous hospitality in allowing us the use of
his Chaplaincy Room.
Purim – 11 March 2017
We all gathered at St George’s Hall on the evening of 11 March to find the doors locked. No problem –
Steve and Micky live nearby so they offered their house for the celebration.
We were blessed with having 4 students from Lincoln Uni on this occasion. As well as Naomi, Sheleg
and Salomé, we had the pleasure of Jessica’s company. She is a Christian student who is focussing on
Judaism as her central topic and was with us for a recent Shabbat service and was now back again to
witness our festival.
We started the evening with Havdalah as Shabbat was just going out. Steve then did a lot of explaining
for our non-Jewish guest so she would understand the relevance of everything we were doing. Then it
was onto telling the story of Esther and reading Steve’s abridged version in ten parts so many of us
got the opportunity to take part. We all had rattles and whistles making as much noise as possible
when Haman and Mordechai’s names were read out. Even our little French student took part getting her
tongue round Ahashchverush with far greater success than anyone else.
After all the fun of the reading we were then ready for our supper. A slightly different meal to what
we normally have but just as enjoyable – Steve’s home- made pitta bread with falafel and Sheleg’s
delicious Israeli salad. Then onto fruit salad plus Naomi’s eagerly-awaited and wonderfully delicious
To round off the evening we had a “show and tell” session where members had brought items that meant
something to them and told us the story behind them. There was a quite a variety –
a silver heart shaped locket;
a picture of one of our members age 9 in a hand- made ballet dress;
a swimming contest from a very young age;
the hand written parchment from inside tefillin and
even a ketuba.
This was another hugely successful LIM gathering with lots of fun and laughter, some delicious foods
and a poignant wander down memory lane for many of us. We ended the evening planning our next event,
which will the 1st Night Seder on Monday, 10 April, to be held in the Chaplaincy Centre of Bishop
Grosseteste University. We are looking forward to welcoming Jessica back again and having Ellis, Karen
and Dorothy all with us in person.
Shabbat Shacharit – 11 February 2017
Our small community enjoyed a wonderful celebration of Shabbat Shacharit this week. Happily, we once
again had well over a minyan despite Salomé not being with us through a nasty cold. As usual, we
enjoyed having Dorothy and Karen join us via Skype.
Steve led us all through the Pesukay D’Zimra and Shacharit services. The Torah service was especially
meaningful this year because the Sidra – Beshallach – described the crossing of the Red Sea and the
Shirat Hayam, Song of the Sea that the people sang afterwards. Before leyning Shirat Hayam, Steve
gave a detailed description of the Torah portion. He then described how the Haftarah was closely
themed with the Torah story before reading about Deborah, Jael and Sisera from the book of Judges.
The service ended with a rousing rendition of Ein Keloheynu, Aleynu and Adon Olam.
After the service we made Kiddush while Karen and Dorothy were still with us. We then enjoyed a
wonderful lunch together comprising gorgeous hot, home-made soup that was ideal on such a miserable,
cold and wintery day. After lunch we continued our revision of the full Birkat Hamazon before
planning the Purim party.
Holocaust Memorial Day 2017
Holocaust Memorial Day Theme: How Can Life Go On?
Some 110 people gathered at St John the Baptist Church to commemorate HMD 2017 – an evening planned
jointly by the Church, CCJ Lincoln and LIM. Members of these organisations were joined by the MP and
Deputy Mayor of Lincoln, the Bishop of Grimsby and members of the local Muslim community and Lincoln
Castle Academy School.
In compiling our programme, we were grateful for the very helpful material on the HMD Trust web-site.
Anyone wanting more information about this material is encouraged to search their site.
Karl McCartney, MP for Lincoln, opened the Commemoration with the lighting of the Auschwitz Memorial
Candle (St John’s was one of 70 churches nationally to receive one of these two years ago).
lit Shabbat candles. We then introduced the theme and noted two significant questions: “In the midst
of such horror and suffering, how do people survive?” and “Having survived, how do people rebuild
their lives, carrying the trauma of their experiences?”
We listened to the poem, “How Can Life Go On?” and reflected on it to music by Ilse Weber (herself
a Holocaust victim) entitled “Farewell comrade”.
Accompanied by slides we thought further about “How people survive.” Firstly, Olga read stories about
Auschwitz itself. Jane then followed with a description of Holocaust survivor Simon Winston. Peter
ended this part with a description of the experiences of Holocaust survivor Rudi Oppenheimer.
Again, accompanied by slides we thought about how people suffering inevitably from post-traumatic
stress disorder can rebuild their lives. We heard about Hope Azeda from Ruanda who has coped by
forgiving and using her experiences to educate others and Abdul Aziz Mustafa from Darfur who has
rebuilt his life in Britain after a perilous journey.
We moved on to think about our response commencing with a reading of Psalm 142 – a desperate cry
to God for deliverance. We heard how Prince Charles (on Thought for the Day) challenged us to
resist the growing tide of racial and religious hatred. Lest we are overwhelmed by the challenge,
we heard the Queen (in her Christmas broadcast) quote Mother Theresa: “Not everyone can do great
things but everyone can do small things with love.” She concluded, "On our own, we cannot end
wars or wipe out injustice, but the cumulative impact of thousands of small acts of goodness
can be bigger than we imagine.”
This time we reflected to Carl Davis’ “Liberation” and the song “Al Shlosha D’Varim” sung by
local community choir, Ermine Voices.
Our ‘act of remembrance’ began with “A Catalogue of Man’s Inhumanity: Past and Present”. Olga
followed this with a recitation in English of the Jewish Memorial prayer ‘Eyl Malay Rachamim’.
The congregation was then invited to process to the front of the church and each light a candle
and place it on the altar – at the end of which, the lights were dimmed and we meditated in
silence before a litany was read. The service concluded with the Aaronic blessing in both Hebrew
(read by Naomi) and English and the playing of Levandowski’s Psalm 150.
Over light refreshments, a great time of fellowship was enjoyed. We are very grateful to everyone
at St John’s for their hospitality and to everyone who took part in this solemn act of commemoration.
Kabbalat Shabbat – 13 January 2017
Despite the threat of snow and it being very cold we still gathered together for our Friday night
service and meal. Edna and Margaret decided not to chance the weather turning nasty and Sheleg and
Salome were still away but Peter, Pat and Naomi were back with us after their Chanukah holidays.
We linked up with our country members and then Micky lit the Shabbat candles.
This was followed by
a lovely service led by Steve. After the service, we handed out a couple of the Hanukah presents
that D and K had sent to those who had not been at the Hanukah party. We then made Kiddush before
saying goodbye to Dorothy and Karen.
We sat down to our first three course meal we have shared together. Pawel was keen for us to try
his special recipe borscht followed by pirogi with yoghurt; then we had salmon, quiche, salad and
finally cheesecake and fresh fruit salad.
The task of washing up after the meals has always been a doddle with so many helping in the kitchen.
With the table cleared and the chores done, we bensched full grace after meals which we hadn’t done
for a long time because Steve had found a short version which we had all become used to singing.
We then planned our next meeting which will be a Shabbat Shacharit and Torah service and meal on
Hanukah Party and AGM – 30 December 2016
On Friday 30 December we celebrated our 6th Hanukah together. We met as usual in the small hall of
St Georges Church, which was really rather cold because the heating system was not working
properly. Never mind, most of us just kept hats, gloves and outside coats on for the first half of
the evening. It was also a very dark and icy night so quite sensibly Edna and Margaret had emailed
to say they would not risk the long dark journey through Lincolnshire more challenging quiet country
roads. D and K, plus Mulberry, joined us from Devon via Skype.
After setting out the tables and chairs, we all lit our Hanukah candles. Steve had brought spare
Hanukiot and candles so just about everyone had the opportunity to light. This being the start of
the 7th day of the festival meant that the room was very quickly bright with 56 festival candles plus
two lots of Shabbat candles that we lit once the Hanukah candles were all ablaze.
Steve then explained the historical background to Hanukah including all the politics of the time
which was really quite complicated. We had arranged the chairs in two lots of 4 either side of the
table of candles so that D and K could see us all plus the candles. Somehow, we ended up looking very
frum with the four ladies sitting on one side quite separated from the menfolk.
Steve then produced his trusty egg timer and led us through the traditional 2½-minute AGM the key
message being that we had enjoyed our 6th year together filled with a rich programme of spiritual
and social gatherings and had managed to more than pay our way.
Next came the opening of presents. Last year D and K had surprised us all by sending each one of us
a small gift. They did the same again this year. Jane had received in the post a very large box that
revealed individually wrapped gifts for us all. Steve had sent them gifts on behalf of us here in
Lincoln. With Karen in mind, whisky certainly featured somewhere.
To complete the celebratory atmosphere we all presented Pawel with a small cake and cards as it would
be his birthday in the following week. Before closing the link with Devon we made Kiddush and then,
after washing and making motsi, we sat and ate a delicious meal of the traditional potato latkes,
salads and other goodies, culminating in the anticipated superb doughnuts that Edna and Margaret
bought from their local bakery and sent over to us knowing that they would not be able to attend
because of the weather.
As a final extra surprise, Steve and Micky then presented us all with more gifts. We were all like
Kabbalat Shabbat - 25 November 2016
This was our first Kabbalat Shabbat after the High Holydays and the ensuing major festivals. The
Chagim are spiritually and communally rewarding, but emotionally exhausting so it was a welcome
experience to return to the old tried and tested rituals of a regular Friday evening.
and Steve now away in the States, we nevertheless had a minyan with Edna and Margaret making a
welcome return with Naomi and with D and K joining us via Skype from Devon. We also had the
pleasure of Pawel, Sheleg and Moshe’s company.
After Naomi had lit the Shabbat candles, Steve led the service with everyone joining in with the
singing. It really was a delight that we can now all participate so fully in Hebrew. We are blessed
to have the use of the Eyt Ratson siddur. The service included Yahrzeit prayers for relatives of
two members, so we were equally pleased that we had a solid minyan for our service as we have had
most of this year.
After the service we all enjoyed a convivial and delicious supper together. We then planned our next
meeting which would be the Hanukah party. As with all events in this Jewish Leap Year since the
insertion of the month of Adar II earlier in the year Hanukah will be starting very late with the
first candle being lit on Christmas Eve. Our party will be on 30 December with its attendant 2½
minute AGM, plus hopefully the delicious latkes that Naomi makes and the mouth-watering doughnuts
that Edna and Margaret bring.
Simchat Torah - 24 October 2016
This was the third year in which we attempted a mini ‘leynathon’ whereby everyone read one verse from the final
chapter of the Torah and then, after re-rolling the scroll, one verse each from the beginning.
We were delighted to welcome not only Naomi, but also the three new LIM members from the uni – Salome, Moshe and
Sheleg. We were also successfully linked to D and K in Devon. Salome opened proceedings by lighting the festival
Steve explained how, traditionally, a community would honour two deserving members by appointing them as Chatan
Torah and Chatan Bereshit to read the Brachot before the Torah readings at the end and then the beginning of the
Torah. Since everyone in LIM was equally deserving of honour he called everyone up to take part in the leyning of
the final 12 p’sukim of the Torah.
Half the fun was getting everyone in the right order, not forgetting D and K
on Skype. Naomi followed the text in the Torah as each one in turn came forward to read their verse, first in
Hebrew and then in English.
Another Simchat Torah tradition would be for members to dance 7 times around the synagogue carrying the Torah.
These Hakafot would be hugely exciting and accompanied by great joy. The trouble LIM has is that the Torah weighs
a ton and we need two just to do Hagba. So Hakafot were off the menu. To enable everyone to participate, to get
close to the Torah and better still to feel confident in handling it, Steve then invited everyone to take turns
to be at the ‘rolling’ end and at the ‘steadying’ end.
This being the fourth year we had done this, everyone soon got back into the swing of the process taking great
care and reverence for the scroll. At last Bereshit hove into view. Steve then got everyone lined up in the right
order to take turns to leyn a verse from the creation story.
With the celebration of Simchat Torah completed we said goodbye to Karen and Dorothy on Skype before enjoying yet
another delicious pot luck supper with everyone, students included, providing a dish.
Everyone agreed that this was a very moving and worthy way to celebrate Simchat Torah. Only one or two of us have
the skills to do a lot in Hebrew so we had devised a way of keeping the festival that included everyone with
readings and especially the chance to get close to and handle the Torah scroll. This third attempt at a ‘leynathon’
had worked really well. Perhaps we have now established our tradition for future ST festivals.
Succot - 16 October 2016
On a cool – but dry – Sunday evening of 16 October we all met at Steve and Micky’s home to celebrate Succot.
The ‘all’ included 4 students – Naomi, Salomé, Sheleg and Moshe – from Lincoln University. Naomi we all knew very
well as she had been a LIM members for over 2 years, but it was very heart-warming to have the other three as
well, all of whom had found us via the website and Facebook, which just goes to show how helpful social media
can be. D and K joined us from Devon via Skype, which also goes to show how useful modern communications can be.
On arrival, we added fruit and branches to the Succah to complete its building, Steve having made the main
construction earlier in the day. Steve began the evening leading us through Ma’ariv for Festivals. Armed with
our beautiful, transliterated siddurim, everyone could join in. After the Service, Steve gave a very clear,
amusing and informative explanation about the festival of Succot, the Lulav and Etrog and the building of
We then all went outside to enter the Succah and take turns to shake the Arba Minim in the prescribed six
Everyone had a go at entering the Succah. Steve had posted the various brachot on the wall in
transliterated format so that even those with little Hebrew could participate. Steve took his IPad outside
so that D and K could also ‘enter’ the Succah. We then said Kiddush before closing down the link to Devon.
Then came a most delightful and convivial supper comprising different dishes that everyone had brought. One
highlight was the delicious apple strudel Peter had made with apples he had taken that morning from his tree.
Another delight was the ‘dirt cake’ that Naomi made. She had introduced us to this rather unusual dish last
year and on this occasion she brought it in a flower pot complete with plastic flowers and (vegetarian) green
We had a lovely evening filled with good conversation, plenty of banter and friendship. As well as thanking
Steve and Micky for their kind hospitality and a memorable Succot celebration, we all left vowing to learn
our leyning for the mini-leynathon we will be doing for Simchat Torah in a few days’ time. Everyone has one
verse to leyn from the end and one from the start of the Torah. Even those on Skype will be taking part. It
should be a fun evening. It was last year.
Rosh Hashanah 5777 – 2/3 October 2016
Erev Rosh Hashanah
14 of us gathered at Micky and Steve’s house for Erev Rosh Hashanah. We welcomed Moshe and Sheleg, two new students
from the university, along with Naomi who was back from America. It was lovely to see Dorothy and Karen who had made
the long journey from down south instead of linking up on skype.
After the service led by Steve, Naomi was put in charge of reorganising the room so we could all be seated to enjoy
home-made soup, bread and cake for supper. We all sang “happy birthday” to Karen who had celebrated a milestone
birthday the day before and presented her with gifts from everyone at LIM.
Rosh Hashanah Day 1
Again 14 of us gathered at Micky and Steve’s house for Rosh Hashanah. The new students had lectures so could not be
with us, but we were joined by Ruth and Natan’s friends Brenda and Michael from Grimsby and Maxine and Steve from
Before the service started, Naomi surprised us all by presenting LIM with a yad for use when reading from the Torah.
Steve G led the Shacharit, Torah and Shofar services, Maxine did Haftorah and Dorothy blew the shofar.
After the service and the reshuffling of furniture we all sat down to a hearty lunch provided by everyone present.
Steve G then led a shiur on the Ten Commandments which made for an interesting inclusive discussion.
The day was warm and dry so a walk to the nearby lake for Tashlich which Steve G, Naomi and Michael led. On our
return home we all sat down for a drink and chat before departing.
All in all this was a hugely successful festival celebration made possible by the simple fact that all LIM members
had a role to play, all shared in the catering, all had a genuine desire to enter into the mood and intent of Rosh
Hashana and everyone took great pleasure in being together as a community. We were delighted to welcome new Jewish
students from the university and to have our LIM friends who live in distant parts back with us again.
Shabbat Shacharit - 17 September 2016
We met in the small hall of St Georges Church for Shabbat Shacharit and Torah services on Saturday, 17 September.
Steve did a lovely service as usual. Naomi was back from her summer visit to the States and we were also joined
by another ‘young person’ in Salomé from Paris.
We joined with Dorothy and Karen in Devon via Skype.
After the service we presented Micky with a card and gift from us all in LIM for her ‘significant’ birthday due
on 28 September. We also presented her with a birthday cake and sang Happy Birthday after which she blew out the
As usual we had a lovely lunch. We then discussed all the catering and other arrangements for the forthcoming
festivals of Rosh Hashanah, Succot and Simchat Torah. Hopefully, we will all know what we are doing. Ruth later
sent us a matrix of who was doing what to help us all.
Peter did his photography duties very professionally as the accompanying photos show.
Kol Zimra - 19 August 2016
With Shabbat still very late coming in, we all took advantage by meeting at Pat and Peter’s for an evening of music
accompanied with great imprecision by Steve on the keyboard. We were delighted to welcome Pawel for the first time
to this kind of LIM gathering. He had a lovely bass/baritone singing voice.
Steve began the evening with a quick summary of the different forms of music – trop, nusach and niggunim – that we
use in our services. He had recently returned from a Jewish Retreat at which he had learnt new niggunim. Soon everyone
was warbling away happily, the joy of these niggunim being that they were very tuneful, but simple to learn quickly.
These wordless melodies gained power by their very repetition almost like chanting mantras.
We then worked our way through a repertoire of favourites from Jewish songbooks and campfire songs finishing as always
with Hatikvah, the Israeli National Anthem.
We had decided beforehand to have a main meal before coming to the event After the singing, we therefore finished the
meal by indulging in tea and a lovely selection of cakes, tarts and biscuits that everyone had contributed to.
These musical evenings have proved to be very popular and a nice gentle break away from the regular Shabbat davening,
especially as we were now heading towards the might and majesty of the High Holydays. Before departing, we planned the
catering and admin for our next meeting for a Shabbat morning and Torah service on 17 Sep when hopefully Naomi will be
back with us after her long summer break from university.
Oneg Shabbat - 15 July 2016
In addition to the normal Friday Evening service, we planned an Oneg Shabbat social evening together. The theme
this year was Jewish humour with everyone asked to bring their favourite joke, Jewish or otherwise, or whimsical story.
With Dorothy and Karen joining in on Skype, we had a minyan and were able to say Kaddish for Steve’s mother during the
Kabbalat Shabbat service. Ruth lit the candles at the start of the service and throughout everyone joined in the singing
with enthusiasm born of confidence and familiarity with both the music and the Hebrew text.
We then enjoyed Kiddush before saying farewell to Dorothy and Karen. Then came an amazing supper of really lovely foods.
This was then followed by a very enjoyable and rib-tickling session of jokes and anecdotes that everyone had brought.
Pat and Peter have volunteered to host our next meeting which will be a Kol Zimra evening of song, taking advantage of
the ability to play instruments while Shabbat is still so late in coming in.
Tikkun Leyl Shavuot - 12 June 2016
On Sunday 12th June 8 of us met at the home of Steve and Micky for Shavuot. We had decided
against an all- night study session and met at 5.00pm instead. Steve had printed copies of
the Book of Ruth for everyone so we took it in turns to read the whole story. It is only a
short book so we discussed aspects of each chapter as we went along. Steve had also printed
some maps of the region so we could see where Moab was where Ruth came from. Lots of input
from everyone but one point that was raised was how easy it was for Ruth to convert or be
accepted as Jewish in comparison to what a proselyte has to go through today.
As is the custom with LIM we then went on to eat a whole cheesecake from the Cheese Society
plus some fresh fruit salad. Although the cheesecake tasted delicious it was not the usual
deep one we get but there were no complaints. We then spent the next hour reminiscing about
countries we had all visited and funny stories along the way.
Kabbalat Shabbat - 27 May 2016
Kabbalat Shabbat on 27 May saw the arrival of a potential new member for our community. Pavel
had been in touch via the website and had agreed to attend service and meal. Pavel was originally
from Poland, but had been in this country for many years.
We comfortably had a minyan because
we were joined by D and K in Devon on Skype. This was just as well because Steve, Jane and Olga
all had Yahrzeits and wanted to say Kaddish Yatom.
After Ruth had lit the Shabbat candles, Steve led the service, which included some really
enthusiastic singing all round. We then celebrated Kiddush while Dorothy and Karen were still with us.
After the service we all enjoyed a warming supper to which everyone had contributed. Natan
has apparently claimed the washing up duties for himself. Much as we all want to play with
the super clever dishwashing machine, Natan always seems to get there first.
Before departing we laid plans for our next meeting which would be TikkunLeyl Shavuot on
12 June. The cheesecake was already ordered!
Pesach - 22 April 2016
This year, with Seder night being on a Friday, LIM members met to celebrate Pesach at St George’s
Hall, there being no competing Zumba classes that evening. We had great pleasure in having Dorothy
and Karen with us rather than via Skype. They had travelled from Devon especially to celebrate
Pesach with LIM. Unfortunately, Pat was a bit under the weather and could not be with us, but
Peter brought Naomi, whose Charoset we were soon all to enjoy.
Special guests this year included Revd James Gandon, curate at St Georges, plus Becky and Elspeth,
two of St Georges members. We were also delighted to welcome Margaret Ford, Bishop’s Visitor to
local schools. Steve had worked closely with Margaret for a recent visit to Eastgate C of E School
to talk to the children about Judaism.
Micky engaged Elspeth in a deep and meaningful conversation as the guests arrived. Naomi showed
Natan photos of the latest fossils she had dug up.
Also, before the evening proper started we
took the opportunity to present Margaret with a gift from the whole community to celebrate her
upcoming special ‘-0’ birthday.
After Edna had lit the candles for both Shabbat and the festival, Steve led the service,
providing transliterated Hebrew for all the main elements for those for whom Hebrew was a bit
of a challenge. Thus, everyone joined in the singing with great enthusiasm and helped with the
reading of the Seder story.Everyone contributed to the delicious Seder meal in a variety of ways.
This was another wonderful evening of welcoming guests, friendship, laughter, communal generosity
and co-operation, everyone having something to contribute, everyone taking away a happy memory of
a festival celebrated in traditional style, but in a manner that enabled everyone to participate.
Purim Party - 23 March 2016
This year we celebrated Purim once again at Pat and Peter’s home. We were delighted to welcome
as special guests Jacky and Brian Chernett from London. Jacky is the first female ordained
cantor in the UK. She had come to tell the story of Purim in a very special way.
The theme for this year’s party was Pub signs. We had all agreed to come wearing something or
enacting something that could be decoded as the name of a typical pub. The photos attached are
just some examples and we leave the reader to decode them. No prizes for correct answers except
to know that you had joined in the fun of the festival.
We began the evening with a lovely supper based on items we had all brought. Jacky then showed
us all a real Megilla Esther that she had brought. Naomi can be seen showing particular interest
After a short discussion on the more serious topics of the meaning of Purim, the
implications of what the story was about and how we were still affected today by threats to our
existence, Jacky led us in a hilarious rendition of the story. She read it in English, but,
being a skilled Cantor, she chanted it using the special nusach (prayer melody) reserved for
As the readings progressed the cheers and boos and rattlings became ever louder as we heard
the hero and villain names. It was great fun with Jacky not only being a highly skilled
interpreter of the Megilla, but also a natural entertainer.
After the reading we had hot drinks and Hamantaschen. Naomi once again came up trumps with
some wonderful Hamantaschen and of course she made far too many, which gave us all an excuse
to indulge even more in them.
All in all this was a Purim party to remember in so many different ways. Sharing foods,
enjoying a tremendously entertaining rendition of the Megilla Esther, behaving crazily and
getting away with it, rejoicing in the warm and friendly social atmosphere, being a part of
the whole Jewish tradition knowing that communities around the world were being just as daft
as we were.
Our thanks go to Pat and Peter for once again allowing us the use of their lovely home, and
to Jacky and Brian for visiting us from London to enable us to celebrate with such joy and
meaning this wonderful festival.
Kabbalat Shabbat - 11 March 2016
Our meeting this month proved to be a very special occasion. We welcomed new guests to our small
community. First, was Joel Loynds, a Jewish Lincoln University student who was in his third year
of studies. He hailed from Manchester and was seeking an interview for one of his projects. We
also welcomed two members of St Georges Church, Elsbeth and Becky, both of whom had long expressed
an interest in witnessing a Jewish service. Sarah, Naomi’s Danish friend at the university, was
also with us once again and we were joined by Maxine and Steve in person who were over from France
on a routine UK visit.
With Dorothy and Karen joining us on Skype, we were a good minyan, which was important because we
were not only saying Kaddish for Steve T’s father, but also in memory of Di Adler, who had just
passed away. Several LIM members knew Di from early days with the Lincolnshire Jewish Community.
We placed the non-Jewish visitors among us so that they could be guided through the service using
our fully-transliterated siddur.
After Jane had lit the Shabbat
candles to bring Shabbat in, Steve G led the service and the room was soon resounding to some
enthusiastic singing in Hebrew by everyone, visitors included. The latter’s benefit, Steve gave
brief explanations of what we were doing at various stages, especially for the highlight elements
such as L’Cha Dodi, the Shma, Amidah, Aleynu and the various versions of the Kaddish.
After the service and while Dorothy and Karen were still connected with us, we presented Maxine
and Steve with a certificate
to say that we had planted a
small grove of trees in Israel in honour of their 60th birthdays. Maxine’s was in February and
Steve’s will be in August.
Naomi and Peter had each made
a cake for the occasion.
We then said farewell to Devon folk, sang ‘Shalom Aleichem’ as we made our way to the supper
table. Our non-Jewish visitors were fascinated by and joined in happily with the hand washing
ritual, especially of not speaking afterwards until we had ‘made Motzei’. The supper was a
delightful mix if delicious foods that everyone had brought. We had also arranged ourselves round
the table to allow everyone to get to know the visitors better, including
an international flavour as Danish Sarah and Swiss Elsbeth conversed happily, while British and
American friends looked on.
After the meal and arrangements made for the next LIM meetings (Purim and Pesach) we all gathered
for a group photo
and then as part of clearing up gave left-over
foods to a very happy student.
This had been a really successful celebration of Shabbat shared with friends and visitors alike.
Both Elsbeth and Becky also accepted our invitation to attend the Seder in April.
Shabbat Shacharit - 13 February 2016
Our small community enjoyed a wonderful celebration of Shabbat Shacharit this week. Unfortunately,
we were not quite a minyan because Steve and Maxine were otherwise engaged in France, Yvonne was
still too poorly to attend and Edna and Margaret were away. Even so, we enjoyed having Dorothy
and Karen join us via Skype.
Steve led us all through the Pesukay D’Zimra and Shacharit services. Instead of the Torah service,
Steve gave a detailed description of learning how to leyn from the Torah using a Chumash, Tikkun
and hours of study. Steve also gave a short Dvar Torah on the messages in this week’s Sidra,
Terumah. The service ended with a rousing rendition of Ein Keloheynu, Aleynu and Adon Olam.
After the service we made Kiddush while Karen and Dorothy were still with us. We then enjoyed a
wonderful lunch together towards the end of which we presented Olga with a birthday cake. After
lunch and our Brich Rachamana version of the Birkat Hamazon we planned our next Kabbalat Shabbat
service and the Purim party.
LIM Visit to Grimsby Shul - 5 February 2016
We are aware that the tiny community in Grimsby meet on the first Friday evening of each month. Try
as we might, we have few opportunities to visit them, but one such chance did occur this month. Micky
and I, with Ruth, Natan and Naomi travelled the one-hour journey arriving just as Leo Solomon, the
shul’s leader, was opening the premises.
Their shul is a Grade 2 Listed building of great beauty and significant historical interest. The local
community have spent a great deal of money and effort maintaining the fabric not least the worries of
recent years that the walls were in danger of collapsing. All this has now been fixed, but what cannot
be fixed is the fact that time has gradually reduced the size of the community. We five were therefore
a welcome addition that enabled them to count a minyan for the first time in a long time.
This was the first traditional shul that Naomi had seen. Inside were many citations, plaques, inscriptions
and artefacts that told the history of the community. One could tell how prosperous and thriving it had
been in its heyday.
Leo led us all through a delightful Kabbalat Shabbat and Erev Shabbat service. LIM members thoroughly
enjoyed the experience even though Leo’s pronunciation of the Hebrew was less ‘Oxford English’ Ashkenazi
and more ‘old school’ Anglo. After Kaddish we all repaired to Steels restaurant in Cleethorpes for what
has become our traditional way of ending the evening with a fish and chips supper.
We were very pleased to renew our close ties with Leo and his community and hope we will be able to repeat
this visit later in the year.
Holocaust Memorial Day - 27 January 2016
CCJ Lincoln, LIM and St John the Baptist, Ermine jointly organised the 2016 HMD Commemoration in Lincoln
held on 27 January 2016 at St John’s Church. Over 100 people attended the event which had received excellent
publicity from the local Press and Radio Stations. We followed the theme ‘Don’t Stand By’ chosen by the
Holocaust Memorial Day Trust and used some of their materials in the programme.
We gathered to learn from the past, to honour those who suffered and those who refused to stand by, and
then to pledge ourselves to act in the present.
After a welcome by Fr Stephen Hoy, the parish priest of St John’s, CCJ member Dorothy Moss opened the
evening by lighting the candle that had marked the 70th anniversary of the liberation of Auschwitz in 2015
when the church was one of seventy chosen nationally to host these special candles.
We devoted the next 40 minutes or so to the theme of Don’t Stand By. First, Revd Philippa White, Curate
at St John’s read Martin Niemöller’s poem: ‘First They Came ….’ and then a student from St Francis
Special School read the prayer, ‘Make me a channel of your peace.’
CCJ Members Revd Mike Mason (Branch Chair), Micky Griffiths and Mike Costello presented some ‘Testimonials’
from victims and those who ‘did not stand by’ using materials from the HMDT web-site (http://hmd.org.uk
if you want to learn more). These included:
- Rudolf Vrba who, with his friend Alfred Wetzler, escaped from Auschwitz-Birkenau so they could warn
Hungarian Jews about their imminent extermination
- Vera Schaufeld who was saved by a man who refused to stand by
- Sir Nicholas Winton and his Kindertransport
- Susanne Flanter was also saved by the Kindertransport where she became part of Sydney and Golda
Bourne’s family. The latter were themselves Jewish migrants from Russia - arrived in London with their
respective families in the early 20th century. They didn’t ‘stand by'
- Raphael Lemkin dedicated himself to spreading the message about the Holocaust throughout Europe and
in the USA. He invented the word ‘genocide’ and was heavily involved in work that finally paid off
when, on 11 December 1946, the UN General Assembly passed a resolution condemning genocide and brought
together a committee to draft a treaty that would make it illegal
From 1939 – 1941 the Nazis carried out their T4 Euthanasia programme to kill those with disabilities. On
3 August 1941 Catholic Bishop Clemens von Galen refused to ‘stand by’ and delivered a passionate sermon
in Münster Cathedral attacking the T4 programme, which he described as ‘plain murder’.
The gathering then heard Ilse Weber’s haunting music “I wander through Teresienstadt”, followed by
Jessica Howell from St John’s who read some reflections on the person and work of Sir Nicholas Winton
especially in relation to the setting up of the Kindertransport. This led to the playing of part of the Final
Movement of Mahler’s 9th Symphony. The recording was particularly poignant because it was by the
Vienna Philharmonic Orchestra recorded in Vienna in January 1939; a few weeks after the performance,
the orchestra was purged of all its Jewish musicians, including the conductor, Bruno Walter.
Three students from Lincoln Castle Academy shared some poems that they had written based on their own
reflections on the theme for the day. Jackie Howell, Reader at St John’s read the story of ‘The Good
Samaritan’ from St Luke’s Gospel, a biblical exemplar of someone who chose not to stand by.
Having heard all this information, we moved on to consider our response to
the question, “Will We Stand By?” in the face of the ongoing threats from antisemitism, race hatred,
Islamophobia in our own country - all of which sow the seeds of persecution and genocide. We
pondered this question as we listened to more music: “The Death Camps” by Carl Davis.
We then came to our Act of Remembrance which began with Steve Griffiths, Lincoln
Independent Jewish Minyan, reading a ‘Catalogue of Man’s Inhumanity’ emphasising
that the commemoration was not just about the Holocaust, but the various genocides
of the past 100 years as well, referring topically to the seeds of a genocide even today
in the treatment of Aziris, Christians and fellow Muslims by IS forces in Iraq and Syria.
He followed this by the Jewish Memorial Prayer and, with a minyan of Jews present,
was able to lead them in saying Kaddish for the departed.
Fr Stephen then invited everyone to come forward and light
a Memorial Candle to be placed on the altar. This was a very
moving experience as the church lighting was gradually
dimmed as the glow from the altar increased. It was
especially moving to see members of the local Muslim
community attending this event, adding to the interfaith
and integration of our three Abrahamic faiths in Lincoln.
With the memorial candles lit and a short period of silent reflection completed, Fr
Stephen read a litany and the evening concluded with both Jewish and Christian Blessings
given by Steve and Fr Stephen.
This was a challenging evening and we hope that we have encouraged those who attended to be more
aware and active in the future in the fight against extremism, intolerance, violence and prejudice.
During the light refreshments afterwards we were able to meet with the members of the local Mosque
who extended an invitation for us to attend their open day in a few days’ time. This will afford us the
opportunity to continue this essential interfaith dialogue and many of us from both the Christian and
Jewish community readily accepted the offer.
Our thanks to Fr Stephen and his congregation for their hospitality, including the refreshments at the
end, and to everyone who took part.
Kabbalat Shabbat - 15 January 2016
Our Independent Minyan started the New Year on a very positive note with a delightful Kabbalat Shabbat
service and meal. We were well over a minyan on this occasion because not only were we joined by D and
K in Devon on Skype, but also by Maxine and Steve who were back home in France. And we were able to
welcome Naomi back after her visit back to Chicago for the festive season.
In addition, Mike Kushner, who was over from Cape Town South Africa visiting family, had been in touch
through the website to ask if he and his father could join us. They both arrived well in good time and
were made warmly welcome by the whole community. Sadly, once again Yvonne was too poorly to join us.
We remembered her very purposefully when we said prayers for those in need of healing.
Steve led the service, which included saying the Mourner’s Kaddish to support Steve T who had very sadly
lost his father very recently. We all wished him Long Life and were pleased that we were able to offer
communal support even from a distance. Jane was also saying Kaddish as was Edna.
After the service we all enjoyed a warming supper of veggie hotpot followed by fruit crumble that was
just the ticket for a very cold and wintery evening. Before departing we laid plans for our next meeting
which would be on the morning of Saturday, 13 February, when we hoped to welcome Steve and Maxine in
person as they would be planning a visit back to the UK then.
Hanukah Party and AGM - 11 December 2015
On Friday 11 December we celebrated our 5th Hanukah together. Only Maxine and Steve were unable to
join us being currently on a visit Stateside. With Karen and Dorothy joining via Skype, we were also
delighted to welcome Edna and Margaret. Also, Naomi was with having yet to finish the semester. Sadly,
only Yvonne was still too poorly to be able to join us and we know how much she enjoys these parties.
We started by lighting the Hanukah candles and singing Ma’ozTsur.
Micky then lit the Shabbat candles.
Steve led a rather shortened Kabbalat Shabbat service. Then came the gift giving. Dorothy and Karen had
sent a large and rather mysterious parcel. On opening it, we discovered most thoughtful and apposite gifts
for everyone present. Even though they could not be with us in person, we really felt the warmth of their
friendship and commitment to our tiny kehilla.
Afterwards we held our 5th AGM which in true LIM fashion lasted just over 2 minutes. The only item of
substance was the finances and Mr Macawber would have been very happy with our situation. We could look
back on a year of full activities, services and socialising and yet we ended the year with slightly more
than we had begun it. Before saying farewell to Devon we did Kiddush and then, after washing and making
motsi, we sat and ate a delicious meal of the traditional potato latkes, salads and other goodies,
culminating in the anticipated superb doughnutsthat Edna and Margaret brought from their local bakery.
Before ending the evening we all wished Naomi a safe flight back home to Chicago for the coming holiday
season.All in all this was a wonderful way to celebrate our 5th year together and we are all entering the
new year with great confidence for the future of the community despite our being rather more dispersed than
Kabbalat Shabbat - 27 November 2015
This was our first Kabbalat Shabbat after the High Holydays and the ensuing major festivals. The Chagim
are spiritually and communally rewarding, but emotionally exhausting so it was a welcome experience to
return to the old tried and tested rituals of a regular Friday evening. With Maxine and Steve now away
in the States, we nevertheless had a minyan with Edna and Margaret making a welcome return with Naomi
and with D and K joining us via Skype from Devon.
Steve led the service with everyone joining in with the singing. It really was a delight that we can now
all participate so fully in Hebrew. We are blessed to have the use of the EytRatson siddur.
After the service we all enjoyed a convivial and delicious supper together. We then planned our next
meeting which would be the Hanukah party with its attendant 2½ minute AGM.
Simchat Torah - 5 October 2015
This was the second year in which we attempted a mini ‘leynathon’ whereby everyone read one verse from
the final chapter of the Torah and then, after re-rolling the scroll, one verse each from the beginning.
We were delighted to welcome not only Naomi, but also her university friend Sarah. Edna and Margaret
were away and Yvonne was still suffering poor health. With still no Wi-Fi in France we could not connect
with Maxine and Steve, but we were successfully linked to D and K in Devon.
Steve explained how, traditionally, a community would honour two deserving members by appointing them as
Chatan Torah and Chatan Bereshit to read the Brachot before the Torah readings at the end and then the
beginning of the Torah. Since everyone in LIM was equally deserving of honour he called everyone up to
take part in the leyning of the final 12 p’sukim of the Torah. Half the fun was getting everyone in the
right order, not forgetting those on Skype. Steve leyned the verses of those missing with Sarah reading
the English translation. Throughout, Naomi followed the text in the Torah.
Another Simchat Torah tradition would be for members to dance 7 times around the synagogue carrying the
Torah. These Hakafot would be hugely exciting and accompanied by great joy. The trouble LIM has is that
the Torah weighs a ton and we need two just to do Hagba. So Hakafot were off the menu. To enable everyone
to participate, to get close to the Torah and better still to feel confident in handling it, he then
invited everyone to take turns to be at the ‘rolling’ end and at the ‘steadying’ end.
This being the third year we had done this, everyone soon got back into the swing of the process taking
great care and reverence for the scroll. At last Bereshit hove into view. Steve then got everyone lined
up in the right order to take turns to leyn a verse from the creation story.
Micky had been under the weather and therefore not able to take part to avoid spreading germs, so we had
asked everyone to have the ‘main course’ of their evening meal before coming. With the celebration of
Simchat Torah completed we said goodbye to Karen and Dorothy on Skype before enjoying apple crumble that
Steve had made (under supervision, of course) and some lovely gluten-free cake.
Everyone agreed that this was a very moving and worthy way to celebrate Simchat Torah. Only one or two of
us have the skills to do a lot in Hebrew so we had devised a way of keeping the festival that included
everyone with readings and especially the chance to get close to and handle the Torah scroll. This second
attempt at a ‘leynathon’ had worked really well. Perhaps we have now established our tradition for future
Succot - 2 October 2015
We met once again in Steve and Micky’s home since they have the means to erect a Succah. They had also
bought the Arba Minim (Lulav and Etrog) when they were in London recently for Yom Kippur. As usual LIM
members brought a delicious array of different foods for supper.
We once again enjoyed the company of Naomi, Edna and Margaret, Ruth and Natan, Olga, Jane and Pat and
Peter. Unfortunately, Maxine and steve back in France still have no Wi-Fi connection and D and K in
Devon could not connect because they had painters in the house. Sadly, Yvonne was still under the
weather and not able to join us.
Steve began the evening with a shortened version of Kabbalat Shabbat. Armed with our beautiful,
transliterated siddurim, everyone could join in. After the Service, Steve gave a very clear, amusing
and informative explanation about the festival of Succot, the Lulav and Etrog and the building of the
Succah. We then all went outside to enter the Succah and take turns to shake the Arba Minim in the
prescribed six directions. Despite forecasts of doom and gloom we were lucky to have no rain at all
while we were outside. Everyone had a go at entering the Succah. Steve had posted the various brachot
on the wall in transliterated format so that even those with little Hebrew could participate.
Then came a most delicious and convivial supper comprising different dishes that everyone had brought.
Everyone left well satisfied with a memorable Succot celebration and vowing to learn their leyning for
the mini-leynathon we will be doing for Simchat Torah in a few days time. Everyone has one verse to
leyn from the end and one from the start of the Torah. Even those on Skype will be taking part. It
should be a fun evening.
Rosh Hashana - 13 - 14 September 2015 5776
We are delighted that we have now held Rosh Hashanah services for the fourth year in a row. This year
Yvonne, Edna and Margaret were all away and could not be with us. We were also delighted to have Naomi,
back from the summer break, Maxine and Steve here on a visit from their new home in France, plus Dorothy
and Karen up from their delightful abode in Devon.
Steve G led the Erev RH service which went very smoothly with everyone quickly picking up the nusach
and melodies that were special for Rosh Hashanah. Afterwards, we all enjoyed a wonderful soup made by
Micky with round challah bought by Steve G followed gluten-=free cake made by Pat and Peter. All of
it was gluten-free (except the challah) so that Dorothy could fully enjoy the meal free of any dietary
After the meal, Steve G issued everyone with their ‘homework’ for Simchat Torah. We had all agreed to
try to do another ‘leynathon’ for ST like we did last year whereby everyone reads one verse from the
final stages of the Torah and then, after rerolling it to the beginning, everyone reads a verse from
the opening chapter.
The next day we all met at Micky and Steve’s home for services. Wearing a traditional Kittel, Steve
led the services starting with Pekuday D’Zimra. He had explained how the nusach would be different
from the nusach used on regular Shabbat services. All the members soon got into the mode and mood of
this music and, with the help of the Eit Ratson Machsor, quickly joined in the Hebrew passages as much
as those in English. After Shacharit and the long Amidah, Steve led the Torah service using the
beautiful, but extremely heavy, Torah scroll that had been a gift from the York community.
Just about everyone had a role to play in this service. Natan, Karen and Jane each had call-ups for the
Torah readings, Naomi followed the readings in the scroll, Ruth opened and closed the ark, Olga read
the prayers for the Royal family, Steve T helped with Hagba and re-dressing the Torah while Dorothy once
again blew the Shofar during the Shofar service with great sensitivity, dedication and integrity. She
enabled this high point in the service to have real depth of meaning and intent.
It has not been LIM’s custom to do the Musaf service so, after Aleynu, Kaddish Yatom and Psalm 27, we
finished with a stirring rendition of Adon Olam. This put us all in the mood for the delicious lunch
that followed, preceded of course with Hamotzi led by Maxine. Everyone had helped with the catering to
weigh the table down with a fabulous choice of savoury and sweet foods.
After lunch, Steve led a 45 minute shiur on the topic of Tshuva. We explored its meaning, why and how
we should go about making Tshuva. We considered the need to start by looking in a mirror at ourselves
and saying sorry to ourselves for the failings we had committed over the past year. The thought behind
this was that if we could not admit to ourselves the extent to which we had sinned, how then could we
turn to others to say sorry. And more importantly, how well could we turn to God on Yom Kippur and
admit ‘Al Cheyt Shechatanu…’ for the sins we have committed…
After the shiur, we had a very pleasant stroll in the wonderfully warm late summer sunshine to the
nearby Hartholme Lakes where we engaged in the ceremony of Tashlich. Micky, Steve T and Olga stayed
at home to sort out the rooms after the service and lunch.
At the lakeside, Steve G explained the purpose and history of Tashlich and the symbolic casting of sins
into the waters in the form of breadcrumbs. This ceremony had not always met with favour over the
centuries with some rabbis claiming that it called on the superstitions and mystical beliefs of the
supernatural, which were contrary to Judaic teachings and belief. But the simple ceremony retained its
popularity with the common folk and remains widely observed today even among the more orthodox.
After reading the short Tashlich service in the Machsor we each took turns in casting our sins away
into the lake. Dorothy, who, being gluten-free preferred not to handle the breadcrumbs directly, had
her own unique way of casting into the water provided she took enough allowance for the gusty wind.
After we had each done this we then spent a few minutes in quiet, private reflection or gentle
discussion on the purpose of the ceremony and its impact on us.
The day finished back at Steve and Micky’s with a delightful hour or so of socialising with drinks
and light refreshments. All in all this was a hugely successful festival celebration made possible
by the simple fact that all LIM members had a role to play, all shared in the catering, all had a
genuine desire to enter into the mood and intent of Rosh Hashana and everyone took great pleasure
in being together as a community.
Kabbalat Shabbat - 28 August 2015
Just before we enter the High Holydays proper, we had a final opportunity to meet for a Kabbalat Shabbat
evening at St Georges. This was the bank holiday weekend, but we still managed to have a minyan thanks to
the presence of Elliott who was a welcome extra guest. We were thus able to Kaddish for Jane’s friend,
Steve’s father and Ruth’s mother.In addition, Ruth and Natan had brought a devout Catholic friend along.
Steve led the service with everyone joining in even louder and more confidently than ever. This was our
first Kabbalat Shabbat for some months having done other things over the summer months. It was so nice to
return to old, familiar melodies and spiritual liturgy.
After the service we all enjoyed a convivial and delicious supper together. We were pleased to hear how
much Ruth’s friend had enjoyed the service. We were also pleased to have Elliott’s company and to catch
up on news.
Kol Zimra - 7 August 2015
With Shabbat still very late coming in, we all took advantage by meeting at Pat and Peter’s for an evening
of music accompanied with great imprecision by Steve on the keyboard.We were few in number because Naomi
was still away for the summer, Yvonne was not in the best of health, neither Skype connections were
possible and Edna and Margaret were away.
Despite being fewer in numbers we made a good sound working our way through a repertoire of favourites
from Jewish songbooks and campfire songs. Steve also led the gathering in the repetitive chanting of
niggunim. These wordless melodies gained power by their very repetition almost like chanting mantras.
Afterwards, we enjoyed veggie pizzas and some nice desserts. These musical evenings have proved to be
very popular and a nice gentle break away from the regular Shabbat davening, especially as we were now
heading towards the might and majesty of the High Holydays.
Oneg Shabbat - 17 July 2015
Rather than have a normal Friday Evening service, we had planned instead to have a social evening
together not least because the light evenings and late start to Shabbat meant we could fill in the
time with non-Shabbat activities.
The theme this year was for everyone to bring 5 questions of their choice on any topic of their
choice. We would each take turns to be quiz master. The questions were all typical of the trivial
pursuit game, mainly general knowledge, but one or two speciality areas, not least the need for
arcane knowledge of the County of Lincolnshire.
With Dorothy and Karen joining in on Skype, this all made for a very enjoyable 45 minutes or so
with everyone a winner, one or two a bit wiser than before and no-one embarrassed by lack of
knowledge. It was conducted in the spirit of having fun together and enjoying the social cohesion.
We then enjoyed Kiddush before saying farewell to Dorothy and Karen. Then came an amazing supper
of reading lovely foods. Pat and Peter have volunteered to host our next meeting which will be a
Kol Zimra evening of song, taking advantage of the ability to play instruments while Shabbat is
still so late in coming in.
Shabbat Shacharit - 20 June 2015
We had planned well in advance to hold a Shabbat morning service today, but as the day approached we
realised that this would not be possible. We would be well short of the essential minyan, partly
because folks usually connecting on Skype were away, and partly because a few of us in Lincoln were
either under the weather, or also away.
A quick change of plan saw Steve, Micky, Olga, Jane, Ruth and Natan – plus Micky’s mother, Lorna –
decamp to the wonderful Bardney Heritage Fish Restaurant for a delightfully social luncheon. The
meal was its usual excellent self and we all enjoyed the shared companionship of our small community
even though we were not able to run a synagogue service on this occasion.
LIM TikkunLeyl Shavuot - 24 May 2015
As is now our custom, LIM members met on Shavuot at Steve and Micky’s home to celebrate Shavuot with a
short study session and a lot of cheesecake. This year we were pleased to welcome Maxine and Steve in
person as they were over in the UK on a visit. We also connected with Dorothy and Karen by Skype.
This year Steve devised a simple crossword as a way of getting folks to think about Shavuot, the Torah,
other festivals and other things Jewish. There was also to odd secular clue to make the words fit.
Between them everyone got all the clues correct even if no one of them got all of them all correct by
themselves. Steve had emailed the crossword to Devon so that D and K could join in.
After wishing Dorothy and Karen ChagSame’ach and disconnecting with them, we all enjoyed the excellent
cheesecake bought from The Cheese Society shop in town. This was accompanied by some gorgeous fresh
fruit salad for those with a guilty conscience about ruining their diet.
Steve had deliberately kept the study aspects more light-hearted and fun this year after previous years
of more in-depth and serious discussions. We can never seek to emulate the fully-fledged communities who
study all night long, but we did what we knew we could and all felt well prepared to receive the Torah,
even if only figuratively.
LIM Pesach - 3 April 2015
Once again LIM members met to celebrate Pesach, this time at Moorside Court, the home of Micky’s mother,
Lorna. Although Maxine and Steve were still overseas in France trying to settle into their new home, we
did have the great pleasure of having Dorothy and Karen with us. They had travelled from Devon
especially to celebrate Pesach with LIM. This was also a first time for LIM to welcome Naomi to our
Seder table. As well as Lorna, we were able to enjoy the company of another Moorside Court resident,
Everyone contributed to the delicious Seder meal in a variety of ways. Steve led the service, providing
transliterated Hebrew for all the main elements for those for whom Hebrew was a bit of a challenge. Thus,
everyone joined in the singing with great enthusiasm and helped with the reading of the Seder story.
This was another wonderful evening of friendship, laughter, communal generosity and co-operation, everyone
having something to contribute, everyone taking away a happy memory of a festival celebrated in traditional
style, but in a manner that enabled everyone to participate.
Purim Party - 5 March 2015
This year we celebrated Purim at Pat and Peter’s home. We all arrived in good time to get settled in
before Peter and Steve popped round to the Metheringham chippie to collect our suppers. These proved
to be as delicious as advertised with generous portions and still nicely hot.
After the supper, Karen and Dorothy joined us on Skype. We were also very pleased to have Naomi and her
friend Sarah with us. Unfortunately, Maxine and Steve were still unable to get Wi-Fi to join us from
France. Yvonne, Edna and Margaret were also missing having prior commitments. All the absentees had
sent their love and best wishes for an enjoyable and fun Purim party.
Steve had prepared the Megilla Esther and allocated a chapter for each of us to read, in English, of
course. He had sent in advance a chapter each to Dorothy and Karen. He also gave each of us a list of
Haman’s sons so that we could all join in the rapid reading of their names in Chapter 9. We were also
armed with home-made ‘greggers’, varying in loudness depending on how many dried peas had been used
and how tinny the container.
As the readings progressed the cheers and boos and rattlings became ever louder as we heard the hero
and villain names. It was great fun. Everyone managed to read the ten names of the sons in one breath.
Purim is the one festival that allows everyone to be just a little silly and we certainly managed to do
The theme for this year was to dress in poor taste, ie either appalling fashion sense or dreadful colour
co-ordination. As the following photos show, no-one failed to enter into the spirit of the occasion.
Everyone had something daft about the way they had dressed which gave rise to a great deal of amusement
on first being seen.
We could not get a clear enough photo, but who will forget Karen’s amazing teapot cosy head dress that
made her look like a Pasha from Byzantium, while Dorothy had either been out fishing or chasing
Naomi once again came up trumps with some wonderful Hamantaschen to devour with the teas/coffees after
we had read the Megilla.
All in all this was a Purim party to remember in so many different ways. Sharing foods, enjoying our own
rendition of the Megilla Esther, behaving crazily and getting away with it, rejoicing in the warm and
friendly social atmosphere, being a part of the whole Jewish tradition knowing that communities around
the world were being just as daft as we were.
Shabbat Shacharit and Torah - 14 February 2015
Our small community enjoyed a wonderful celebration of Shabbat Shacharit this week. Happily, Steve and
Maxine were in the UK on a brief visit from France. We also welcomed Yvonne and Naomi and had the
pleasure of celebrating Olga’s birthday. With Edna and Margaret away and Jane absent still recovering
from a recent bout of poor health, we were nevertheless a completed Minyan with the link to Dorothy
and Karen via Skype.
Steve led us all through the Pesukay D’Zimra and Shacharit services, followed of course by the Torah service.
The reading this week was Mishpatim. Before calling up the first Aliyah, Steve explained the content of the
Sidra and focussed on the section that would be read out loud. Everyone had a copy and so could follow. It
was lovely to be able to call up Naomi for the first time.
Maxine followed the text in the scroll while Steve leyned from the Chumash. Before returning the scroll
to the ark, Dorothy via Skype read the prayers for the community, Israel and the Royal Family. Steve then
led everyone in a rousing rendition of Ein Keloheynu, Aleynu and Adon Olam.
After the service we made Kiddush while Karen and Dorothy were still with us. We then enjoyed a wonder lunch together
towards the end of which we presented Olga with a surprise birthday cake.
After lunch and our Brich Rachamana version of the Birkat Hamazon we planned our Purim party and the
visit to the Grimsby shul before everyone gathered for a group photo
courtesy of Peter’s clever remote control thingy.
The only sad aspect of our meeting was news just in of the passing of Don Gould, whom several of us knew
very well from the days when we belonged to the Lincolnshire Jewish Community.